I almost died, looking after my mother through the last years of her life.
It was a 24/7 job. She needed me day and night. I never slept through a night, and then needed to attend to all the daily chores. I was physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted. My doctor warned me that if I didn’t change things, I could die before my mother. That was my wake-up call.
Hi, I’m Hilda, and I’m here to tell you about my journey to self-empowerment, and how I can help you achieve your dreams.
I’m happily married for 50 years; raised 3 very lively and curious sons, and am now blessed with their loving families. When the boys were older, I became a Real Estate Broker, which opened up a whole new world for me. I found it very rewarding being able to advise people on purchasing their most valuable asset.
I’m an only child, and when my father died, it was both my desire and obligation to look after my mother, as she had always been there for me. Mom lived with my husband and I for 20 years, and during that whole time she was in pain. As the doctors had no solution, I looked for help everywhere, and energy modalities were among them. I finally found Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT, or tapping as it’s also called), which was both simple to use, and very effective for pain.
Then, Mom’s health deteriorated significantly; she was in and out of the hospital and I was with her all day and most nights, until I hit rock bottom and couldn’t go on any longer.
After my doctor’s warning, I hired my own EFT coach to help me out of the depths into which I’d fallen. With the help of EFT and my coach I was able to hire someone to be with my mother during the night and finally had a good night’s sleep, after many years of not having that luxury. I hired someone else for part of the day where I had my EFT sessions, a massage, went for walks, listened to soothing music, and did what I could to regenerate my body, mind and soul. My relationship with my husband improved. I had clarity of mind and could once again make rational decisions for both my mother and myself. I found I actually loved being with my mother again, comforting her, being present for her, and not resenting the fact that she was taking up all of my time, as I had before. At age 70, I finally realized that I control what happens in my life.
Honestly, I don’t have to do this work – my family keeps telling me it’s my time to relax and enjoy life. But, I have this burning desire within me to help others on their path. I have my life experiences as well as being an accredited EFT Practitioner, Soul Realignment® Practitioner, and a Certified Emotional Success Coach, registered with EFT International.
The amazing and awesome truth is that YOU ARE IN CONTROL, and YOU GET TO DECIDE how healthy, wealthy, rewarding, fulfilled, happy and joyful YOUR life is going to be. E-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org and let’s have a conversation about you and your life, where you’re stuck and not living life the way you desire. It’s not too late, we’ll make a plan together.